18 Undeniable Signs He Loves You Secretly And Deeply – Her way

1. He will show up when he says he will

 When a man is secretly in love with you, he won’t lead you on. If he says that he will show up at, for example, 8 PM, he will be there, on the dot at 7.50. PM just to avoid you having to wait for him.

This is a sign that he respects you and that he wants you to feel good. He wants you to feel special and he will do anything to provide you with the things you need.

If you were lucky enough to spend time with a gentleman like this, you should know that he knows what he does and that he is truly a good guy. In fact, you can see if someone is a nice guy or not from the start and this one is quite promising, right ladies?

2. He has strong eye contact

Sometimes when you are on the first date, it can be a little bit embarrassing if a guy looks at you all the time but you should know that this is actually a good sign. If he is looking straight into your eyes, it means that he really likes you and that he likes spending time with you.

If he goes a step further and holds your hand while telling you something and looking you in the eyes, it means that he is head over heels in love with you and he can’t help it.

So, now it is up to you whether you will give him hope or you will just ignore him. If he is a really nice guy, I suggest you give him a chance. I am sure you won’t regret it!

3. He touches you ‘accidentally’

Boys can sometimes be quite sneaky, you know. If he touches you and then says that it wasn’t intentional, it can be a sign that he secretly loves you but is scared to admit it.

Boys do this often just to be close to you and to feel your skin on theirs but they can’t come up with a different way to actually do that. So, the next time that a guy who has been watching you for a while does something like this, you can be sure that he is up to something and that he likes you as more than a friend.

Don’t be too harsh on him and admit that you know what he is trying to do but instead act like you know nothing and just let him try his best to win you over. It will be quite fun to watch that!

4. He asks questions

 When a guy loves you secretly, he will ask you so many questions because he will want to get to know you better. Not only will he ask you about yourself but he will also share some things about his life with you.

You can hear him telling you about his friends and places where he traveled with them. If he tries to tell some jokes about himself, it is a proven sign that he is into you and now he is just investigating to learn more about your feelings for him.

He will constantly try to make you feel good in your own skin when you are with him, just so you can agree to go on a second date with him. You have to admit that he is intelligent and if he continues to use his brain on good things, you should stick with him.

5. He is clumsy when he is with you

Guys have a tendency to be clumsy in front of women they are into. The catch is that they would like to represent themselves in the best light possible but they can’t do that because they are too nervous.

If your man is clumsy in front of you all the time it can be a sign that he is secretly in love with you but doesn’t know how to admit it. I know, this is crazy. But the bottom line is that he can’t help it and he can’t control his emotions. So, don’t make it too hard for him because he is already struggling to impress you.

6. He leans toward you

Man and woman at a coffee bar

If you catch him leaning toward you while he tries to explain something to you, you should know that he does that without even knowing it. Men do this when they are secretly in love with someone but they don’t have enough courage to admit their real feelings.

I mean, it is not the easiest thing in the world to approach a woman you like and tell her what you feel about her so you should understand his situation. Just have this one thing in mind: He really loves you secretly so if you see that nothing happens, try to make it easier on him and do something that will make him take the first step.

7. He remembers even the smallest details about you

Does he remember your dog’s name even if you mentioned it only once? It means that he cares about you, your people and things about you, so he will try to find out more about you. When a man has a secret crush on a woman he will want to learn more about her.

No matter whether those things are meaningless or they are super-important, if a man is into you he will try to memorize them all. And you will be quite surprised when he mentions something that you told him a long time ago. That is just a sign that he was listening to you carefully and that he made you a priority a long time ago.

8. He doesn’t mention or look at other girls

Man and woman

If you are on the first date it is quite important to every girl that her date doesn’t check out other girls. Can you imagine a situation where you go out and the whole evening your date checks out that hot waitress and seduces her by sending her some kisses?

It would be a date from hell but trust me, guys like that exist as well. But thank God your man is totally the opposite and that he knows to show that he likes you more than a friend. If you were lucky enough to meet someone like this, who can make you feel special, you should think about it no more and do everything to keep him, because he is obviously a keeper.

9. He acts like a real gentleman when he is with you

You enter the restaurant with your date and he hurries to get to the table first so he can pull out the chair for you. This is a sign that chivalry isn’t dead and that there are still guys who know how to make a woman feel special.

It is obvious that he wants to do nice things for you, which can tell you that he is in love with you secretly. Maybe he just needs more time to open up to you or he is waiting for the perfect moment.

But no matter what happens, you will know that he really has good intentions for you and he wants to fight for you. And unfortunately, guys like him are quite rare nowadays.

10. He is active on your social media accounts

Man checking his phone

If he likes every photo or every thought that you post, it can be a sign that he is secretly in love with you. By liking all those things on social media sites, he wants to tell you that he is there and that he supports you.

And yes, he thinks that you are beautiful. I am sure that he stares at your photo once you post it and admires your beautiful eyes, your smile and your charisma. Trust me, for him that is enough to fall in love with you madly so if you like him as well, show him that you care.

That will boost his ego and he will make the first, essential move. Who knows, maybe he is the one you have been dreaming of all this time.

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