45 Little Ways You Can Tell If Someone Is Into You


1. Lots Of Eye Contact

Subconsciously or not, we like to make tons of eye contact with people when we think they’re attractive. If they can’t stop staring into your eyes, you’ve got your first clue.

2. Their Pupils Dilate

According to Patti Wood, a body language expert and author of Success Signals, A Guide to Reading Body Language, big pupils mean your crush is looking at you with desire. “Dilation is a brain response that occurs when you like and are attracted to something,” Wood tells Cosmopolitan.

3. They Lean Toward You

They just want to be close to you! Note their body language — this will reveal a lot about their intentions with you.

4. They Ask Questions

We are very inquisitive when we’re around people who interest us. So if they’re asking tons of questions, they want to know more about you — and see more of you .

5. They Make Plans

If they want to see you again sometime soon, they’re into you. No one wants to commit to something next Thursday unless they actually really want to spend time with you.

6. They’re Creative

They don’t just ask you to come over at 2 a.m. or see if you want to grab a drink at a dive. They get tickets to shows or explore new restaurants with you, because they don’t want to just be super boring — they want to come off as exciting and fun.

7. Two Words: Body Contact

If there’s a lot of arm-touching or “accidental,” under-the-table leg-grazing, take heed: That probably wasn’t an accident.

8. They Point Their Toes Toward You

Take a peek at their toes. “The feet tend to point where the heart wants to go,” Wood tells Cosmopolitan. It doesn’t get much more simple than that.

9. They Don’t Talk About Other Romantic Conquests

Because they just want to conquest you, duh.

10. They Ask Your Opinion

Whether it’s a decision about which movie to see or a decision about life, they want you to weigh in.

11. They Invite You To Meet Their Friends

You’re not just shut up in one tiny part of this person’s life — after a little while, they bring you out to meet their pals. And it feels natural.

12. They’re Sensitive

If they know you hate spiders, they’re very quiet when they see a spider crawling across the table, and whisk it away without making a big deal about it, because they know you’d appreciate that.

13. They Listen

And they’re not judgmental.

14. You Seem To Put A Bounce In Their Step

You can tell when someone is happy to see you. If seeing you seems to enliven them, you’re on the right track.

15. They Give Compliments

If they’re always telling you how great you are or how nice you look, they’re into you.

16. They Ask About Your Past

They want to know about where you come from, and are curious about the answers you give.

17. When You Hold Hands, You Really Hold Hands

They don’t just grab the tips of your fingers — if when you hold hands, they press their palm into yours and interlock fingers with you, this means they’re trying to connect with you, Wood tells Cosmopolitan.

18. They’re Not A Wild Flirt . . .

. . . with anyone but you. With you, they’re a flirt and a half.

19. They Are Thoughtful

It doesn’t have to be grand gestures of affection, but does she bring you a coffee after work because she knows how tired you are? Does he tell you he thought of you when he heard that song you’ve been playing on repeat? Little gestures go a long way.

20. They Match Their Pace With Yours

Zooming off a few steps before you isn’t romantic, and means they’re thinking more of themselves than of you. But if they adjust their gait and walk alongside you, Wood tells Cosmo, they’re including you in their thoughts, and want to be beside you.

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